Thinking "Out of the Box"

A Good Mail by Games of Wisdom

Many hundreds of years ago in a small Italian town, a merchant had the misfortune of owing a large sum of money to the moneylender. The moneylender, who was old and ugly, fancied the merchant's beautiful daughter so he proposed a bargain. He said he would forgo the merchant's debt if he could marry the daughter. Both the merchant and his daughter were horrified by the proposal.

The moneylender told them that he would put a black pebble and a white pebble into an empty bag. The girl would then have to pick one pebble from the bag. If she picked the black pebble, she would become the moneylender's wife and her father's debt would be forgiven. If she picked the white pebble she need not marry him and her father's debt would still be forgiven. But if she refused to pick a pebble, her father would be thrown into jail.
   
They were standing on a pebble strewn path in the merchant's garden. As they talked, the moneylender bent over to pick up two pebbles. As he picked them up, the sharp-eyed girl noticed that he had picked up two black pebbles and put them into the bag. He then asked the girl to pick her pebble from the bag.
   
What would you have done if you were the girl? If you had to advise her, what would you have told her? Careful analysis would produce three possibilities:

1. The girl should refuse to take a pebble.
2. The girl should show that there were two black pebbles in the bag and expose the moneylender as a cheat.
3. The girl should pick a black pebble and sacrifice herself in order to save her father from his debt and imprisonment.

The above story is used with the hope that it will make us appreciate the difference between lateral and logical thinking.
The girl put her hand into the moneybag and drew out a pebble. Without looking at it, she fumbled and let it fall onto the pebble-strewn path where it immediately became lost among all the other pebbles.

"Oh, how clumsy of me," she said. "But never mind, if you look into the bag for the one that is left, you will be able to tell which pebble I picked." Since the remaining pebble is black, it must be assumed that she had picked the white one. And since the moneylender dared not admit his dishonesty, the girl changed what seemed an impossible situation into an advantageous one.

MORAL OF THE STORY: Most complex problems do have a solution, sometimes we have to think about them in a different way.

16 point plan

Hello Friends, i just got this good mail in my inbox

1. Don't talk negatively about people behind their backs.

2. If you gossip, people won't confide in you. Mind your own business .

3. Try to work for someone who'll challenge your powers.

4. You'll learn more in a year than 4 years of college.

5. Successful bosses have good communication skills. They learn from people, including their employees .

6. Work in such a way that makes your boss look good. It's not flattery

7. On downsizing, the first to go are those with few friends. Bosses prefer competent people whom they respect.

8. Dress for the job you want, not the one you have. Let your dress reflect professionalism.

9. Workout to get in good physical shape. Unless exceptionally skilled, the unhealthy are at a comparative disadvantage.

10. Personal integrity is crucial. Tell nothing but the truth. Bosses can forgive mistakes but if you lie, you're gone

11. Be on time . Try to arrive few minutes early. It saves you from stress. You'll be much relaxed & work better.

12. Strive your best to keep a deadline. If you cannot meet it, then apologize & ask for an extension

13. Don't take things personally. If some people are unhappy with you, it's their problem. But always strive to give your best .

14. If you must correct someone, don't get personal about it. Do it never in front of others

15. Spend some time alone every day. Think What's the mission of my life? What do I want to be? And how to go about it.

16. As you move along Plan A of your career, maintain a Plan B as well an alternative course to rely

Always remember that the secret of success is passion. Always think big. Spread love & joy. You'll have blissful years ahead

You should smile more

A research done in England found that a baby smiles 400 times a day, an adolescent 17 times and an adult doesn't smile at all!  The more successful one keeps a very stiff face.  Is roughness a sign of success?  Is being stressed a sign of prosperity, growth or dignity?
 
You should smile more.  Every day, every morning, look at the mirror and give a good smile to yourself.  You know what happens when you smile?  All the muscles in your face get relaxed.  The nerves in your brain get relaxation, and you get the confidence, courage and energy to move on in life.
 
Wake up! Don't let your smile be snatched away by anybody!

TUFAN SINGH

Stop to Blame ‘Something’ or ‘Someone’

When someone is doing something or is about to do something, in a way we don’t want it to be done and when we are not able to accept it, we become angry.

However, When someone is doing something or is about to do something, in a way we don’t want it to be done - and we are able to accept it- we remain tolerant.

When someone has something which we don’t have, or someone is able to produce the results which we are not able to produce and we are able to accept it we get inspired.

Then emotional equation is quite simple.
Something + Acceptance = Positive Emotion
Something + Non Acceptance = Negative Emotion

So, it is not ‘something’ or ‘someone’ who is making us feel positive or negative, but it is our ‘acceptance’  or ‘non acceptance’ of something or someone, which is making us feel positive or negative.

It isn’t the world but the quality of our response to the world that determines the quality of our emotions. Next time we feel disturbed with a negative emotion, instead of asking who or what is disturbing us, we will examine who or what we are resisting (not accepting) that is causing this disturbance in us. We will replace resistance (non acceptance) with acceptance, and the negative emotion will turn into a positive one.

Emotional management begins by stopping to blame that ‘something’ or ‘someone’ and starting to take the responsibility to respond life with ‘acceptance’.

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i have started my new blog recently,

now you are getting my silly type of bakwas through my blog.


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तूफान सिंह

A Good Quote of SrimadBhagwad Geeta

We have to practice remembering to lord always, twenty four hours a day by chanting his names and molding our life's activities in such a way that we can remember him always.

Save Tiger

Tiger in Rest Mood

All you know that today tiger are indangerous species. so please save them.

TUFAN SINGH

TUFAN SINGH: Some Useful Facts of Water

TUFAN SINGH: Some Useful Facts of Water: "If you drink 2 Glasses of water After waking up - This Helps activate internal organs If you take 1 Glasses of water before 30 minutes of..."

Some Useful Facts of Water

If you drink 2 Glasses of water After waking up  - 

This Helps activate internal organs

If you take 1 Glasses of water before 30 minutes of meal

Helps digestion

If you have problem of Lower Blood Pressure 

Please take One Glass of water before taking bath

Take One Glass of water Before sleep
 

Help in avoid stroke or heart attack 


In short, we should drink minimum of  8 to 10 glasses of water per day.

TUFAN SINGH

Water Crises in Rajasthan

आज जबकि राजस्थान में बरसात का पानी खूब बरस रहा है तो हम राजस्थानी लोग उसे स्टोर करने की बजाय उस पर कुछ भी ध्यान नहीं दे रहे है 
क्या आप वो दिन याद करते है जब जयपुर को बीसलपुर बांध से दो दिन का ही पानी मिलना शेष रहा था  सारा का सारा मीडिया चिल्लाने लगा था अब वो मीडिया केवल पहले या दुसरे पन्ने पर केवल बरसात की छोटी सी खबर छाप कर चुप है बहुत ही अजीब बात है 
बहुत ही बुरा लगता है जब सारा मीडिया बरसात पर राजनीती करने वाले नेताओ की खबरे एक्स्क्लुसिव छापता है 
जिन लोगो को कभी लाइन में लग कर पानी नहीं भरना पड़ा हो वे लोग क्या जाने की तीन किलोमीटर से पानी सिर पर ढो कर लाने की पीड़ा क्या hoti hai


समय आ गया है जबकि हम खुद पानी के रखरखाव के बारे में सोचे. वर्ना ये नेता लोग तो पिछले ६० साल से हमको बेवकूफ बनाते आ रहे है और बनाते रहेंगे


तूफान सिंह

About An Organic Company of Jaipur

बर्बाद गुलिस्ता करने को बस एक ही उल्लू काफी है 
यहाँ हर डाल पे उल्लू बैठा है अंजाम ए गुलिस्ता क्या होगा 

MY FIRST INTRODUCTION IN BLOG COMMUNITY.

Hello Friends, this is my blog where i post my opinions and my sili jokes. First of all i want to tell you that i Dont have very much experience of Writing English so if any mistake please ignore and make it point of laughs.

Basically i m errited with our systems so most of my posts are against of our systems with my personal intention.



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SURENDRA SINGH